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New Zealand Dads Desperate to Bring Their “Triplings” Home from Mexico

In a short video clip that has gone viral, David and Nicky Beard’s “triplings” are shown relaxing on their backs on a large bed in between their fathers, who are looking at them adoringly. The husbands used two surrogates from Mexico to achieve their dream of having a family. The twins, Blake and Kelly, were carried by one surrogate, and the other delivered their singleton, Lachlan.

Courtesy stuff.co.nz

Courtesy stuff.co.nz

David Beard, 41, is the biological father of the babies; his sperm were used to fertilize eggs from an Argentinian egg donor. The babies were born in early March 2016, and the Beard family is still in Mexico.

Overseas surrogacy in locations such as India, Thailand, and Mexico has been successful for foreign individuals and couples. However, these cases can be fraught with difficulties that shed light on the glaring differences  between these nations and the United States.

Lachlan arrived prematurely, requiring neonatal intensive care, and his parents made the decision to have him airlifted to a hospital that could better meet his medical needs. Due to the mounting hospital bills associated with his care and the care of his siblings, the Kiwi couple is now $280,000 in debt. Reporters Jonathan Milne, Nicole Lawton, and Anna Burns-Francis collaborated on a recent article published by Stuff.

They wrote, “The couple desperately wanted to get their children home from Villahermosa, where they said they were born among cockroaches and in other unhygienic hospital conditions. They were pleading for help from friends and family around the world but, most of all, from the New Zealand and Mexican governments.”

These intended fathers live in New Zealand and are used to healthcare in a developed country, with all its accoutrements, and were probably terrified for the well-being of their babies.

It’s imperative that intended parents understand that there is a reason why surrogacy agencies in developing countries can charge less. The medical care is generally not on par with that of first world countries.

Even with that said, the director of Surrogacy Cancun, Alice Torres, is fighting back and refuting the claims regarding the hospital conditions at the clinic in Mexico recommended by her agency.

In a different Stuff article, she also told the reporters that the medical costs increased because Lachlan was on life support for a total of 14 days. The reporters went on to write, “…she said the Beards then made the decision to use a hospital not endorsed by her agency.”

Torres also shared that the surrogacy contract underscores that intended parents are responsible for any costs arising from birth complications.

“As far as additional funds to cover his premature birth, it is listed in his contract, as part of his responsibility. He [David] has known this all along,” Torres told the media.

The couple shared that a month before their children’s births and after their final payment was drawn from their escrow account, they were “abandoned” by their agency manager.

David and his husband Nicky, 31, have hired an attorney specializing in family law to help them get their babies home.

The couple is also making a plea to Michael Woodhouse, New Zealand’s immigration minister, for intervention. They are asking that the babies receive passports issued by the New Zealand Embassy in Mexico City, a much less cumbersome process than requesting Mexican passports for infants with no biological ties to Mexico.

Reporters were able to reach The Ministry of Social Development in New Zealand, which said that the government was familiar with the case and had offered some information to the Beard family.

“Their situation is typical of many international surrogacy cases. They can be highly complicated, involving other countries’ laws and procedures and involve a high degree of uncertainty,” she said. The government of New Zealand intends to focus its efforts on the adoption of the children by Nicky Bread, the non-biological parent, after the family returns home.

The couple hopes they will be home by next month. We all hope that this is the case for them as well.